How does parents arguing affect a child

 

Parental argument affects the child which has an emotional impact on the child, lack of concentration, bed-wetting, insomnia, mistrust, physical and mental level.

A child's whole world is his parents. How he becomes an adult depends on the mental, physical, emotional activities of his parents. If they give him a balanced relationship, he will not only be attached to the family but will also have trust in people.

But the fight and disagreement between the parents will rock his whole world. This can also happen. 

That he breaks completely under mental pressure and does not take any wrong step.

When parents express disagreement or displeasure on something. Taunts Or get angry. And he thinks that there is something between them, if his child is not able to understand it, then it is not so at all. According to research,  

• A 3-month-old baby starts to understand the difference between parents. 
• Child of 6 months starts understanding the mutual coordination between the parents. 
• And the child of 9 to 12 months starts understanding the state of mind of the parents just by their touch. 

"If mentally weak, sick or antisocial people are studied, then in 90% of the people, the main reason for this is mainly seen between parental argument and separation."

What happens when parents argue in front of their child?

Lack of concentration

When the child sees the parent disagreeing or getting angry about something. Then he starts crying. Feels restless and insecure. Even in his dreams he sees restless times and wakes up in fear. Lack of concentration is found in such children due to which their learning ability becomes weak.

Lack of confidence

If lost for a long time, they lack confidence. And the habit of lying also develops in them.

Bed wetting

Many times such children suffer from the problem of bed-wetting for a long time. Limping, stammering or talking by raising any part of the body becomes a habit.

Insomnia

Due to this, the problem of insomnia starts in the child. And he becomes rebellious by nature. He starts living in tension, fear, chaos. He is always in fear of losing his parents. And keep on blaming yourself for everything.

Mistrust

Suspecting everyone, not trusting anyone becomes his nature. He takes every problem as a big problem. He does not have access to easy ways to solve any problem.

What should parents not do in front of children?

do not fight in front of the child

When the child is in front of you, even if it comes to arguing at that time, keeping your patience. Deal with the matter peacefully so that the child does not feel that there has been an argument.

Try to handle your quarrel with tenderness.

Respect each other

Choose words in front of the child very thoughtfully, words can make someone's personal talk and can also spoil it. If in front of him, laughing and making fun of each other's shortcomings. So it can have an effect on them.

Telling each other again and again that it is useless to talk to you.

By repeatedly counting the same shortcoming and making fun of it, it will be understood as a child of estrangement between you. Your kids will behave the way you treat each other.

Do not take out resentment and anger on children

Do not take out each other's displeasure and anger on others. No matter how angry you are, keep an eye on the child and if a disagreement or argument does start, try not to be the child and make everything seem normal. It doesn't sound like this is the reason for your argument. If both are not able to agree on any decision then try to agree. Do not argue especially for the child.

Parents not disagreements

If the child makes a mistake, both should have the same opinion for him, one side should say "Come on, no matter what" and the other should say "you should apologise". So in such a situation the child learns to misbehave. The exemption received from the guardian makes the personality of the child weak.

Don't be a part of the debate.

In many cases, the father or mother forces the child to take their side. In many cases, the parent forces the child to take their side. If the argument is between you, don't try to make the child a part of it or a witness. It also means to give an inducement of some kind. That you are making him selfish.

Poor performance at school

Parental argument between the parents also affects the schooling of the child. He is not so clever in studies. Can't do my homework on time. They find studying a burden. Can't make many friends in school.

"The survivors make the base of their family after seeing the life of their parents. You will trust each other, take joint decisions, take out time for family, be happy at that time, give importance to each other's opinion. If you understand the importance of living with each other, then your child will also adopt these qualities and grow up to make a decent and better family"